tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post1368440357242588440..comments2023-10-09T04:00:32.744-06:00Comments on Sylwia & Joshua: In Trouble Again / Znowu Powoduje KlopotySylwiahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16367764109444733995noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-23621025907734632932009-07-28T15:41:27.301-06:002009-07-28T15:41:27.301-06:00I love those pictures of the boys and the sting ra...I love those pictures of the boys and the sting ray how cool are they?<br /><br />I think it's better to have the baby out. I think it's time....Bastianclanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02308451662597287053noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-8800803773503215062009-07-25T18:46:24.775-06:002009-07-25T18:46:24.775-06:00Sylwia, You do what you feel needs to be done. As...Sylwia, You do what you feel needs to be done. As far as you've said, you don't have any symptoms of pre eclampsia besides the high BP, right? Babies almost always do better the longer they are left in the womb. NICUs are amazing these days. They do great things for babies who otherwise would not have survived in the "olden days". It still doesn't mean that babies do better in the hospital than they do in your body. <br /><br />I just wanted you to know that just because you made this choice doesn't make it wrong. Unfortunately, women get "fired" from their OB's. I say unfortunate, because they should be partners with the health of you and your baby. If a dr can fire you for "non-compliance", doesn't that make him kind of a dictator? Doesn't that make his "recommendations" an edict or a law?<br /><br />We should be free to choose our practitioner. You pay him as a consultant with extra knowledge. You make the decisions and then you must deal with the consequences. This is how the system works best.<br /><br />You will be okay! :-)Karinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06296227080039958245noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-40859474896331532852009-07-25T11:22:27.813-06:002009-07-25T11:22:27.813-06:00Sylwia - I was wondering how things were going wit...Sylwia - I was wondering how things were going with you, and had to chuckle at your post (and your friend's). Only you would get fired by your doctor :) I think your friend Mary put things well, and correct me if I'm wrong...but when a dr. knows they are taking a baby early can't they inject medication to speed up the development of the baby's lungs (usually the biggest worry with babies born a few weeks early)? If it were me, that would help me feel better when weighing the pros & cons of waiting. We'll keep you & the baby in our prayers, and good luck (although I don't think it has much to do with luck)...Mark, Holly and Boyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03950177084090112176noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-50576690528431679632009-07-25T07:31:11.209-06:002009-07-25T07:31:11.209-06:00Go to preeclampisa.com you can find some really go...Go to preeclampisa.com you can find some really good info there and ask doctors. It took me about a year to get my kidneys to run right agian!!! And a good six months to stop seeing lights in my eyes. even with my second kid preeclamisa came on earlyer and faster. I know your not worried about your self, just the baby, but you need to be. You could have a stroke with blood in the 170's that would not be good for the baby. if you need to talk you can always call me. I can give you some could tips for the nicu. I'm not even sure your baby will have to be in there every long? My baby who was born at 30weeks and was 2lbs9 oz. came home in only 3 weeks at 3lbs 3oz. he nursed the next day he was born and did all the normal baby things. just small.bonniejean22https://www.blogger.com/profile/02871925317766853703noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-17702099632716776572009-07-25T05:28:07.042-06:002009-07-25T05:28:07.042-06:00You already know that I think, at this stage, soon...You already know that I think, at this stage, sooner is better. I think that the complications that could arise from being 5 weeks early are easier to treat and less potentially devastating than the complications that could arise while the baby is still in utero.<br /><br />But you also know I think you should go with what the Spirit tells you.<br /><br />We'll be gone all day today, but I'll have my phone. You better call if you have baby Muloki Zeezrom today! :)Brandihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12179949318807848041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-62954250451375071482009-07-25T00:08:57.647-06:002009-07-25T00:08:57.647-06:00Sylwia, my heart goes out to you during this diffi...Sylwia, my heart goes out to you during this difficult decision. I agree with your friend above...NICU's these days are quite awesome. <br />I have done a few hours of searching the internet on your condition, and honey, none of it is good. All the stories I read ended up with devastating results or results that were just too close for comfort, and nearly every sufferer said that it took MONTHS for them to recover because the preeclampsia did so much damage to kidneys and liver.<br />How close are you to 35 weeks? What impressions have you received from your prayers? Has Joshua given you a blessing and what does he think, in his medical opinion? Has a biophysical profile been done on the baby, what does his weight and movement look like?<br />I did not suffer from pre eclampsia with this last pregnancy, but when I went in at 39 weeks and they could not find her heartbeat for about 30 minutes, i was devastated. Upon delivery, it was discovered that i had 2 placentas, and the one she was attached to had some pretty serious calcifications. My point in sharing this, is that I felt fine and if that little hiccup hadn't happened, I could have lost her. Thank goodness I had a midwife who wouldn't let me dismiss the whole thing as 'weird' and let me go home!<br />I say, have the baby as soon as possible.<br />I am sure we will all be watching and anxiously awaiting your decision, because, after all - it is YOUR decision. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.....<br />Shannonmomof5foxeshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15766336063206316510noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8339876237124280003.post-49301211184869630512009-07-24T21:31:49.207-06:002009-07-24T21:31:49.207-06:00Here's my opinion, though you have to know fir...Here's my opinion, though you have to know first that I know very little about preeclampsia. The technology that is available for newborn care these days is incredible and your baby would be in good hands even born prematurely. If your other babies were born with healthy weights and this one looks to be a good size, I would go ahead and have the baby and not risk either of you facing serious complications that could arise if you wait it out.<br /><br />Kent's cousins had a baby 13 weeks early, and thanks to excellent NICU care, his only lasting complication is that he has to wear glasses. I tell you, technology is amazing! And you can add Priesthood power through blessings on top of the technology. I say go for it, in my humble opinion.Maryhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01583286432601536145noreply@blogger.com